Who Can I Talk to if I Don’t Trust My Family?

Who Can I Talk to if I Don’t Trust My Family?

If you cannot trust your family to help you find addiction treatment, there are other ways to get started in treatment

It helps to have an ally when you are recovering from addiction, but if relationships with your family are strained it can feel like there is nowhere to turn. Addiction is too big of a problem for you to handle on your own, but if you cannot count on your family’s support there are plenty of other ways to start your recovery journey. Speaking with a doctor, friend, or someone else you trust can get the ball rolling and once you start treatment you will be in a better position to talk to your family.

Finding a Counselor Who Can Help

Addiction counselors are trained to help people in recovery but until you see one you may not know where to look. Start by talking with your doctor about LSD addiction and how your abuse has affected you. Your doctor may refer you to a counselor or psychologist with experience treating addiction. A counselor is in a better position than a doctor to offer advice and help you find rehab treatment because he has spent thousands of hours with other addicts in the same position. An addiction counselor knows how to find effective treatment and understands just what you need so that you can make a full recovery. Addiction counselors are one of the best resources you can find early in recovery when you are unsure of where to turn.

Other Places to Turn for Support

While family is a great place to turn for help there is always support available if you need treatment for addiction. Let your close friends know you are struggling with addiction and need help and they may assist you in finding treatment.[1] At the very least, telling people close to you will give them the opportunity to offer help such as rides to treatment or checking in on you. Support groups are another excellent source of support if you need help and are not sure where to turn.[2] In a support group you will be surrounded by peers that are dealing with their own addictions. The group leader facilitates discussions among recovering users where they can share stories of their struggles and offer advice on how to further your recovery. There are other places you can look for support depending on your situation including co-workers, fellow church members, or other people you know you can trust.

Rebuilding Trust After Addiction

It is normal for trust to erode between a drug user and his family if he does not seek treatment for his addiction. Addiction causes people to lie, deceive, or steal to fuel their habit, and over time this affects every relationship a user has. If you steal from your family to buy LSD it is reasonable for them to begin to lose trust, and if you feel spurned by your family because of your behavior you may not trust your family either. Addiction can alienate you from the people you love the most, and the only way to rebuild that trust is to get treatment for addiction.

You can apologize over and over for the problems your addiction has caused, but no one will take you seriously until you take accountability for your actions and show that you are taking steps to prevent them from happening again. Enrolling in addiction treatment is the first sign that you are making an effort to improve, but it takes time to rebuild relationships after rehab. Keep your family in the loop regarding your recovery and make time to see them and start growing closer again. Family therapy is an effective option for those looking to improve their relationships in the wake of addiction recovery. [3]A family therapist helps identify the reasons the relationship is struggling and assists the addict and family in sorting through complicated emotional issues related to addiction. Think of a family therapist as a mediator who can help you mend the relationship while at the same time addressing the problems so they can be prevented in the future.

Need Help? Call Us

If you do not know where to turn for help with your addiction we would be happy to tell you more about addiction treatment or refer you to an effective treatment center. The longer you wait to start rehab the more damage addiction will do in your life. Call our toll-free helpline today to speak with a trained addiction specialist about the different forms of rehab available and to find out if your health insurance will help pay for your stay. We are standing by 24 hours a day to help you find the right kind of treatment for you so give us a call now.


 

[1] http://www.healthline.com/health/addiction/helping-an-addict#Overview1 Approaching and Helping an Addict by Mara Taylor

[2] http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/support-groups/art-20044655 Support Groups: Make Connections, Get Help By Mayo Clinic Staff

[3] https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/content/SMA13-4784/SMA13-4784.pdf Family Therapy Can Help For People In Recovery from Mental Illness or Addiction